A wink is just a little bit of flirty fun... a simple greeting
sent from one member to another.
Sending a wink
When browsing a member's profile, you may feel the urge to
wink at them ;) To do this, just scroll down to the bottom of
the page and click the "Send wink" button.
If you can't find a "Send wink" button, the member may have
asked us to hide it. In this case, he/she/they are much more
likely to respond to a personal message sent using the
internal mail system.
Receiving a wink
Whenever you log in (or click on the Home page) we will tell
you how many new winks you may have received.
To see who has been winking at you, click the Winks button at
any time to go to the My Winks
This page will reveal who has been winking at you. You can also
keep track of any winks you may have sent, by clicking the Winks
The latest winks will always appear at the top of the list.
I've received a wink - what should I do now?
Just as in real life, there is no pressure to respond to a wink,
and nobody will be offended if you don't. However, you might
just feel a devilish urge to wink back ;)
If you do, your admirer may then be encouraged to sit down and write
a proper personal mail message, knowing that they may not be completely
wasting their time.
Remember, a wink back is not expected where there is no mutual admiration.
On the other hand, not replying to a mail message is regarded as bad manners.
You have complete control over the winks system. Go to
My Account - Privacy - Winks
to specify the type of members
you are willing to accept winks from.
You can even disable winks altogether, but think of the fun you might be missing! ;)